The Story of that Girl..!

It about a girl who have dreams, aspirations and feelings filled with emotions. Let’s call her D. She is an independent modern girl with career aspirations and like any Indian household she has the pressure to get married. Her family pushing her to get married. She like an obedient Indian girl accepts but has some expectations from her partner so that the marriage will be a love relationship rather than just a formality.

She had got multiple marriage proposals and has talked to few guys but she was looking something different to match her frequency. One day, she got a profile of a guy; he was ok type but got decent profile. Her parents were looking ahead for a meet. Things went forward and one day she got a call from that guy. She was bit reluctant to talk much to stranger but he tried his best to make her comfortable.

So, after that they talked few times on WhatsApp etc. and it was ok and she agreed to meet the guy. Guy took one month to come over and then the D day arrived in that small town in a small restro.

She was sitting with relatives there waiting for the guy and the wait was killing her as that guy was nowhere seen and everyone was waiting. She thought the guy was not at all interested and making people wait intentional. She was feeling awkward as time was passing.

Finally the guy came but he was sitting backwards and was not able to see the guy. Everyway was giving him the pleasantries and she was able to hear his voice but not able to see him. She tried to do some sneak peak but all in vain. It was like waiting for that perfect moment but things not going as planned. After some time, they made guy sit opposite to her to talk. Guy was dressed just ok and was smiling. She was bit nervous even to see him or take her eyes up. Next her family members were sitting.

Guy tried to strike a talk, asked her for drinks and snacks but she was reluctant in everything and just said hello and some courtesy pleasantries. Guy was feeling like girl is not interested and girl was feeling the opposite. It was really an awkward situation.

Guy asked families to give them some private place as gal was not feeling comfortable at all. It was like when you make a small school girl sit in front a girl and she is all shy and all.

They tried to talk about general stuff but she was not at all making eye contact. Guy was like, hey girl, what’s wrong. We are in touch for so long and he flied down her to meet her from 2000km and she was not at all talking. It was all pissing him badly. Guy asked his mom to take her outside to strike a talk in alone, one last time. Few things were running in his mind but still, it was the moment he want to take chance because that instant he felt this is THE GIRL whom he can actually share rest of his life comfortably.

They both went out and things got pleasant. Girl started being chirpy and was talking bit more. Guy got comfortable. Even though some mongering guys were looking at them form a distance but they dint care and went on their business. Talking different things but not the thing what they came for. :D

After few minutes, they went inside and everyone started asking the opinion. Although, this is a weird thing sin Indian marriage where people expect to choose their life partners within 20-25 minutes talk but as they were talking for last few days, it was bit more comfortable for them.

Girl said yes and so do the guy and everyone was happy and went on to congrats each other. Girl was still bit nervous and thinking if she has taken the correct decision or not. Will this guy be able to deliver what her aspirations are? Will he support her in whatever she will do? She was bit worried if she will got some govt job for which she has worked so hard, will that or his family will support or she has to sacrifice her life for him.

All these things running in her mind, but still she took the risk and said yes. She is a very brave girl who always expects her family to be happy if she has to sacrifice few of the things. Even when the guy asked, if she said yes in pressure or is she ok to go ahead, she said she has decided only after thinking and will go ahead.

She is like a flower who wants to give its smell to everyone but will itself next to thrones.

PS: Girls are the best thing created by the God. They are there for so many things. They deserve so much respect and love but the society don’t care much about them even when they are the creator of the society.

That Meeting of Two Souls :)

So, the day came finally. I was supposed to meet the girl, my family has met earlier. I had also talked to her couple of times over phone. He seemed to be very sweet girl. And you know why all this talking.  Because it’s time to go in to the ditch...  ahahaa I mean getting hitched.

So, everything got planned and we were supposed to meet at that restro with families. I was bit skeptical in this process but there was no way I can escape and try the way I wanted to go for.

Still, everyone left and I was still lazing on the couch and mom scolding to get ready and reach ASAP. I started getting dressed and voila the shirt button fell off and urghhh there was no other decent shirt had ironed. I just got that old shirt of mine and put it on and wore those blue shoes and shoot for the restro.

I was not sure what to talk to and if she will look nicer than phone or less nice because of the nervousness and the all the people around. I went inside and so many people staring at me. I became so uncomfortable and I was just seeing the girl's back in that orange saree. I was eager to look at her but I didn’t as it might show me being too eager. Everyone still staring at me and I went to a seat and sat next to my family.

I was trying to take a sneak peek and I was like is this the same girl I have seen the snap of? She looked way different and cuter. Anyway, after sometime, they let us sat opposite to each other and to make the things more comfortable, I tried to strike in conversation but she was not making any eye contact and I was feeling uncomfortable.

I asked mom to go to different place and tried to talk to her separately. She became bit comfortable then but still there was no eye contact. I was like ok, I like this gal and since we already talked, I feel we will be compatible enough to move ahead but it seems girl is not interested or there is some issue. I was trying my best to make eye contact. Then I asked mo to let us go out and see what happens. There the things went bit different and she was seeing more comfortable and I was just putting some silly talks etc. to her. She was smiling with some locals ogling to her. I was bit uncomfortable as walking with a girl with people starting etc. but who cares.

I decided that, I will go and say yes and let’s see if she says the same or will kick my ass coz of silly talks. But to my surprise, I came to know after getting inside that she agreed. I asked her again for confirmation if she is ready to spend rest of her life with me and she nodded and confirmed and I was filled with joy from inside but dint showed it much. I wanted to hold her hand but even after talking for next 30 minutes was not able to. Families taking snaps again made me a bit uncomfortable but all went well and the Deepika and Nitin became DeepNiti :D :D :D

PS: I know if she will read it, she will kick my ass for just telling my feeling not her. So, it’s an invitation to her to tell her feelings to me and I will portray them in a story with masala and put it on :) :)